Retirement – Making new friends

Found this great YouTube video on the process of making friends. It is so good, i had to post it so you can clearly see the effort of developing a new life in retirement and how this was all taken care of by your job and family prior to retirement. Enjoy.

You thought the only thing you needed was Money.

You spent 40 plus years paying attention to and planning your Breadwinning career. Work-related issues and problems filled your mind on the job and when at home. Now that is gone, but your mind has not moved on. Just like your planning for retirement where you were given financial advice on saving for retirement. You maintained a 401K, set aside money from your family for your own future use. You may have even gotten get help by engaging a financial planner to guide your investing. You were told that hobbies and vacations will fill your days with happiness and purpose. It may, but not likely. The book “Retirement How NOT to end up Tired, Bored and Lonely” is an excellent introduction to this next part of your life. In retirement you need to rediscover yourself and your new purpose.

Retirement Video- Thailand – endless sex, drinking and parties – but no friends, no tribe

Some believe that financial independence results in a happy retirement filled with unlimited sex, parties, and drinks.  Here is a video on Thailand by an American living in the middle of the party capital of the world.  Pattaya, is the city with the most sex workers in Thailand.   The biggest downside is also the biggest distraction from your life.  It is just conspicuous consumption rather than activity with a purpose.

Some quotes from the video:

“Not just the tourist things, but do things with guys with a common interest, a friend.”

“Even if you speak the language, you will never be one of them.” (Member of the tribe)

This video narrated by a retiree and about midway you will hear him say that he “wants to be with and do things with friends.”  

Link to video – The struggles of a man living in Bangkok (Pattaya same name)